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Oct. 25, 2026

Always the Strong One? The Hidden Cost of Holding Everything Together | Anette DeMattio

Always the Strong One? The Hidden Cost of Holding Everything Together | Anette DeMattio
No sitting on the sideline dad
Always the Strong One? The Hidden Cost of Holding Everything Together | Anette DeMattio

Everyone counts on you. But what happens when you're running on empty?

In this episode of No Sitting on the Sideline Dad, I talk with Anette DeMattio, author of Too Strong for Your Own Good, about the pressure to keep going, take care of everyone else, and put your own needs last.

Anette shares her experience as a six-time cancer survivor and how it shaped her understanding of strength. We talk about asking for help, making room for yourself, and what our kids learn from watching how we handle life's challenges.

If you're the person who always says, "I've got it," this conversation gives you a reason to pause and ask how you're actually doing.

In this episode:

  • How being "the strong one" can become an exhausting role.

  • Recognizing when you've pushed your own needs aside.

  • Why accepting help can feel uncomfortable.

  • What parents model when they keep pushing through.

  • Taking small steps toward caring for yourself.

Connect with Anette

Website: anettedemattio.com

Take the Too Strong Quiz: toostrongquiz.com

Book, Too Strong for Your Own Good: Find it on Amazon

LinkedIn: Anette DeMattio

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